Why You Should Be Hiring Leaders Who Embrace Discomfort
John Elliott • April 6, 2025

Comfort has become the silent killer of executive performance.


In an era defined by disruption, volatility, and shrinking margins, too many leadership teams are still optimising for control, not adaptability. They talk about transformation, but build cultures of stability. They prize clarity, yet avoid the ambiguity where real growth lives.


The problem isn’t capability. It’s discomfort intolerance.

The solution? Start hiring and promoting leaders who deliberately seek discomfort—not just those who can tolerate it when it arrives.


Growth Mindset Isn’t Enough Anymore

You’ve heard the term "growth mindset" countless times. It’s become a leadership cliché. But it’s not wrong—it’s just incomplete.

A growth mindset says, "I believe I can learn."


Discomfort-driven leadership says,
"I will actively seek out the hardest experiences because that’s where I’ll grow fastest."

The distinction matters.


Leaders with a growth mindset tend to thrive when external change forces them to adapt. But leaders who embrace discomfort create those conditions on purpose. They invite hard feedback. They question their own success. They take action before external pressure arrives.


According to a 2023 study by Deloitte, only 22% of executives say their leadership team is “very prepared” for the future—despite record spending on transformation programmes (Deloitte Human Capital Trends, 2023). That gap exists because most teams are trained to manage change, not lead into uncertainty.


Ask yourself: Are you hiring leaders who wait for disruption—or ones who walk towards it?


Discomfort Is the Driver of Strategic Advantage


Companies don’t fall behind because they make bad decisions. They fall behind because their leaders avoid the hard ones.

In high-stakes industries like FMCG, where regulatory pressure, margin compression, and shifting consumer loyalty are accelerating, comfort is dangerous. It fosters:


  • Short-termism

  • Decision paralysis

  • Lack of innovation

  • Cultural stagnation

McKinsey found that organisations with a strong tolerance for ambiguity—where leaders frequently challenge their own assumptions—are 2.4x more likely to be top-quartile performers on total shareholder returns (McKinsey & Company, 2022).

In other words: embracing discomfort isn’t a trait—it’s a multiplier.


Let’s take an example. When COVID hit, Lion Brewery—one of Australia's largest beer producers—was forced to rethink logistics and supply overnight. But smaller craft breweries who had already diversified through direct-to-consumer models adapted faster. Why? Their founders had already been operating in discomfort. They were trained for volatility.


What Discomfort-Driven Leaders Actually Do Differently


You can spot these leaders. They don’t always look like the most confident in the room—but they’re always the most effective in a storm.

They:


  • Seek feedback from critics, not fans

  • Prioritise strategy over popularity

  • Tackle underperformance head-on—even if it means conflict

  • Ask hard questions that slow down groupthink

  • Regularly step out of their functional lane to challenge assumptions

They also act. Not rashly—but decisively.


In a recent Australian Institute of Company Directors (AICD) survey, directors ranked “resilience and adaptability” as the #1 trait they now seek in new appointments—outranking experience for the first time (AICD, 2024).

That’s not a trend. It’s a shift in what leadership now demands.


The Real Cost of Hiring for Comfort


Not hiring discomfort-driven leaders isn’t just a missed opportunity—it’s a risk.


Here’s what it’s costing you:

  • Strategic Drift: Without challenge, strategies become stale. Your team optimises yesterday’s model.

  • Talent Exodus: Top performers disengage when they see leadership avoiding tough calls.

  • Innovation Bottlenecks: Safe cultures don’t take smart risks. New ideas die in committee.

  • Crisis Fragility: Leaders who haven’t been tested won’t perform when stakes are high.

Bain & Company found that companies with decision-making cultures built around speed and tension—not consensus—were 95% more likely to deliver sustained value creation (Bain, 2023).


Ask yourself: Is your executive team equipped for bold calls—or just built for calm waters?


How to Identify Discomfort-Driven Leaders in Interviews


Everyone talks a good game in interviews. But few have the scar tissue that comes from operating in real discomfort. The trick is to go beyond surface-level success stories.

Here’s how:

Ask Better Questions:

  • “What’s the most uncomfortable decision you’ve made in the last 12 months—and how did it play out?”

  • “Tell me about a time you got strong pushback from your team. What did you do?”

  • “What’s a belief you held strongly that you’ve now abandoned?”

  • “When have you chosen a path that was harder in the short term, but better long term?”

Look for:

  • Specificity (vagueness = theory, not lived experience)

  • Self-awareness without self-promotion

  • Signs of humility: they talk about learning, not just winning

  • Evidence of risk-taking: role changes, cross-functional moves, or failed experiments

Pro tip:  Ask referees how the leader handles ambiguity. Not just performance. This will tell you more about how they lead under pressure.


What to Do Now: Practical Actions for Executive Teams


If you want to build a leadership culture of discomfort, you have to engineer it. It won’t happen organically in high-performing, risk-averse teams. Here’s how to start:

  1. Audit Your Current Team: When was the last time each leader took on something that scared them?

  2. Rethink Talent Criteria: Shift from stability and experience to adaptability and action under pressure.

  3. Redesign Development: Stretch your execs with ambiguous, cross-functional challenges—not just workshops.

  4. Model It at the Top: If the CEO isn’t embracing discomfort, no one else will.

You don’t need to create chaos. You just need to stop insulating your leaders from discomfort—and start asking them to seek it.



The Discomfort Dividend


You can’t build a future-ready business with comfort-first leadership.

The next generation of strategic advantage will come not from better processes or faster tech—but from bolder human decisions. From leaders who are willing to feel awkward, wrong, or out of their depth—because they know that’s where the value is.

So next time you're hiring a leader, ask yourself:

Are they looking for clarity—or ready to lead without it?
Do they want the role—or are they ready for the risk that comes with it?
Are they seeking comfort—or prepared to create discomfort for progress?


Because in 2025,
comfort is a luxury your business can’t afford.

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